Week 24 - 26

好對不起, 實在好懶好懶, 好耐好耐都無 upload 番 the "52 ways to Stay in Love Forever", now let me continue:

Week 24 - 20 April 2008

BE BRAVE - "Relationships are, by definition, uncharted adventures. This can be particularly hard for people who check maps frequently and like to know where they're going. With the understanding that you both have different tolerances for risk-taking, encourage each other to get comfortable taking risks, learning new things, opening up, and admitting fear. Talk about the dears you each have. Take turns being brave about emotional and life issues. It's easier to don that safari hat and set out into the emotional wilds when you are in the company of a loving and supportive friend."

呢張 card for me have a deep feeling, 因為 the friday (18 April) before i receive this card is the day when we discover we have our baby!! I really feel lost after knowing the surprising news and keep questioning if we are ready for a baby. Thanks GeorG for giving me courage and support to face the challenges ahead!

Week 25 - 27 April 2008

BE SUPPORTIVE - "In addition to the goals you create as a couple, encourage your partner's individual dreams and goals. Who is better situated than you to be a loving coach and ongoing source of gentle nudging? Help him experience the exhilaration of undertaking something he's dreamed of but has also feared failing. Even if it means your needs may be slighly compromised in the short run, be supportive, since the quality of your partner's - and consequently your - life will be greater in the long run. And expect nothing less from him."

Week 26 - 4 May 2008

LEARN TOGETHER - "Spend time learning something that interests both of you. You can simultaneouly enjoy being in the student role and getting to be each other's study buddy. Also, with outside adult supervision you can both relinquish certain amounts of control and enjoy being sponges as your soak up new information. From tap dancing to ikebana flower arranging, there are infinite subjects you can pursue to learn and play together."